Sunday 29 April 2012

Just One life!

Its true and all of us know it. But we love to turn our backs to this fact. How, is what you think? Aah! think of the last time you were unreasonably complaining with your domestic help. Ever considered the validity of the image you have created for the fellow passenger? ..and my inner self said a big NO! Why? I ask myself and I can't figure out anything concrete. It isn't just me or you! Its the devil side of all of us. Why should I care, is the attitude within when I need care is a demand from within. What irony is our life into! Labeling is probably the easiest stuff we end up doing every day. There are a few posts on Facebook regarding this doing good rounds. We like, we share. Now, do we need Facebook to develop an implement option too, so that we would start implementing it in our lives? The virtual friends and online socializing has actually ruined me of real life or offline living skills. What really brings happiness is happiness itself just changing hands and thereby multiplying. A gentle Hello from somebody I am not really friends with is likely to throw me into logic behind it. Well, that logic is simple too. It has to be a first time sometime. Its our generosity, probably, that needs nurturing. We all have only one life. But we spend more of our time and energy into creating tangles. These tangles go with us places, getting severe. And when one fine day we think of them, they appear impossible. As far as my experience goes, openness to new experiences really helps. Why should I mind talking to that fellow who has never troubled me? Why shouldn't I take an initiative and say Hello to that girl who is always quiet? Why should I label her as a snob even before the first interaction? I hold no rights to it. I am into simplifying my life. Why don't you too do something with yours? All the best! Start loving yourself in the surrounding you are.

2 comments:

  1. wow surti darling.. Deep! ;) loved the line: "Its our generosity, probably, that needs nurturing." and " I am into simplifying my life."

    truely we must nevr make presumptions about anyone before interacting.. we may b missing out on a potential friend, eh.. n I for one really need to start keeping a check on my impatience levels :P
    keep such good thoughts coming dear girl.. might make someonez day beautiful! ;) :))))

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  2. Hey.. great thoughts!!.. "Start loving yourself in the surrounding you are. " Life is beautiful but we have to find those beautiful parts.... Other than FB every one should Start implementing these nice thoughts.. Good piece of work... Keep writing and showing way of enjoying life in your own way...

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